The holiday shopping season officially kicks off with Black Friday - but not all that comes with it is positive. Check out these shopping tips and deals! #blackfriday #sale #2019
The holiday shopping season officially kicks off with Black Friday - but not all that comes with it is positive. Check out these shopping tips and deals! #blackfriday #sale #2019 #CentSai #savingtips
The holiday shopping season officially kicks off with Black Friday - but not all that comes with it is positive. Check out these shopping tips and deals! #blackfriday #sale #2019 #CentSai #savingtips

The holiday shopping season officially kicks off with Black Friday - but not all that comes with it is positive. Check out these shopping tips and deals! #blackfriday #sale #2019 #CentSai #savingtipsWe are about to bear witness once again to one of the reasons why financial education is so important. Black Friday and Cyber Monday are just around the corner, and the shopping frenzies — and occasional criminal behavior — they stir are as breathtaking as the personal debts they can leave behind.

More than 165 million shoppers will spend over $300 from Thanksgiving Day through Cyber Monday, per the National Retail Federation.

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A record 196 million consumers enter this shopping season with a credit card or access to some other form of revolving credit, Transunion reports. Meanwhile, a record 175 million adults in the U.S. already have non-revolving debt like an auto loan or mortgage, according to the New York Federal Reserve.

It’s a shame the prospect of additional debt doesn’t stoke the same kind of passion as you see when shoppers converge on a sale item with limited availability. Hand-to-hand combat to save $29 on a Google Home at Walmart makes little sense in any event, and you’d be hard-pressed to see the same kind of passion when it comes to paying off outstanding (and interest-accumulating) credit card debt. 

Lessons From Black Friday

Researchers have long puzzled over Black Friday behavior. Many shoppers team up, typically with family members, and attack a sale as though they’re participating in a coordinated military strike, according to a paper published in the International Journal of Retail and Distribution Management

They often show up predisposed to aggression. Just reading an advertisement for a limited availability sale item can stir competitive antisocial behavior in unrelated parts of life, according to another paper published in the Journal of Consumer Research.

These are useful discussion points as they relate to the power of marketing and human behavior, and it also gives us the opportunity to learn some valuable Black Friday lessons in financial literacy. Most consumers understand that when you spend $100 on an item that has been marked down from $150, you still spent $100. The $50 “savings” are immaterial unless it was an item you would have purchased anyway.

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Consider that $15,000-a-year membership with the jet-hailing app JetSmarter. You can “save” a couple thousand on Black Friday. But odds are this is not something you should buy.

Less than half of U.S. states require financial literacy classes in high school — but the average American has over $4,200 in credit card debt alone, according to Experian.

That’s part of the problem. It highlights the need for a much broader and more thorough swipe at reaching kids in school and adults in the workplace with information that will help them sort out the real value of holiday “bargains” or, at the least, help them stay out of fistfights at Walmart and Best Buy.

The Bottom Line

So this Black Friday, before storming the barricade of your local big-box retailer, think about how much you’ll actually save if you choose to stay home — and what you can do about your own outstanding debt first. 

Shifting your mindset away from a “percent discount” to “total amount spent” can be helpful in curbing unnecessary holiday purchases.

“A $200 item with 75 percent off is still $200. If you weren’t going to spend that money anyway, you’re just getting manipulated by that temptation to spend,” says financial coach Brittany Waters

“Make it a mantra for yourself that just because something is on sale, it doesn’t mean that I need it,” Waters adds. “Changing that language and reframing the way you actually look at sales makes a huge difference.”

Reframing the way you look at Black Friday “savings” can help you — and your family — take stock of your finances in a way that builds long-lasting (and non-confrontational) money habits.